Ok so like I feel so guilty for not blogging much recently except posting a few act chio photos and expecting to get away with it hahaha..
That is so not me, so yea, here’s a post!
I wasn’t sure what to blog about initially but I decided I’d make it up as I type the entry.
This entry will be about
Random facts you (probably) didn’t know about me!
(Wow, I am so NOT self-absorbed… I am just being generous in sharing with you my awesome life HA HA HA)
1) I do not believe in God.
I think that God can be your best friend, yes,... your imaginary best friend that is.
I have learnt (or at least tried) to be more subtle these days, and so I shall not impose my opinions on you too much.
If you’re still interested in reading about my opinions on religion,
(Warning: Sensitive religious people with a cactus up their asses should not read, or should read and NOT comment)
I know I was quite offensive and absorbed in my own views in the past, am not exactly proud of some things I said in my older posts BUT I am very proud of myself for always standing my ground and sticking to what I believe in, instead of fearing to voice my opinions just because it’s different from others.
I was a born buddist but as I grew older, I also grew wiser and the idea of god faded just like how santa claus did.
My mum and my grandmother are very religious people, who often pray and go to the temple, etc, and sometimes I tag along (When they force me to) just to humour them.
I don’t scoff that much at religious people anymore, but I still find the whole idea very amusing although now I understand why people choose to believe in a god.
I’ve went through pain and lonely nights and felt like nobody could help me or understand, and at that point of time, having a god exist would be nice.
But I’d like to think I’m stronger than resorting to rely on an imaginary character eh.
The only thing I worship is Foodism!!!!
2) I have a boyfriend who is shorter than me
(I didn’t stand very straight in this picture)
..For those of you who say I look bigger sized than James, you are right. I am about 1.7m (WITHOUT HEELS) and he’s a few CM shorter than that.
Many girls would probably gasp and go like, “WA HOW CAN?!?!”
…Why cannot? Physical appearance matters to me, but I think the face is the most important, so I care less about the rest (evidently, if you compare my face and my figure)
I would rather have a boyfriend who has a cute face but is rather short than a boyfriend who is rather buff but has a below average face.
I don’t feel uncomfortable going out with him just because he is shorter - it’s not about the height, it’s about the chemistry
and the length
Girls who say they feel insecure when they go out with small sized guys need to get over their damn insecurities. Wtf?! Self-confidence plz!
Appearance aside, James also matters a lot to me and although we are the two most different people in a relationship ever, we have very strong chemistry and passion, which a lot of couples lack.
Also, by passion I mean the passion to annoy the hell out of each other at times.
3) My parents are divorced
I love this pic, it’s my desktop wallpaper now
Me and my family are getting on fine now, but we’ve had a rather dark past.
A past that not many people know of, to the extent that some people would think I’m trying to gain attention by making up stories if I revealed some secrets.
I’m not ashamed of my past, but all that is left is history and what matters most now is that I am a happy girl who is loved by her family (albeit not absolutely complete)
Quite a few people have asked about my dad recently (since I post about my mum and uncle john much more than him)
My dad is a professor / lecturer at NUS/NUH, as he has been for a very long time.
(why is the professor’s daughter’s teeth so yellow? mystery of the century xD)
He used to be the Dean of the Dentistry Faculty, and has achieved many great things…
Things I hope I’m not expected to match up to in the future because I don’t think I can. If you google him, you’ll find countless number of pages documenting his achievements..
If you can figure out his name, that is
As for my mum, the 50+ year old hottie,
she’s currently unemployed, living a super shiok life of a tai tai, doing nothing much except going out, going on cruises and having holidays all over the world with her multi-millionaire boyfriend of 6 years Uncle John. (the one whose house we stay in everytime we go to Perth)
I have an elder brother, currently in the same school as me – MDIS.
I start school on the 20th btw!!! Am kinda excited and reluctant at the same time… it’s a strange feeling.
I live with my mother and my brother and my maid and quite often, my boyfriend + my grandmother too xD
4) I am not a popular / sociable person
I know alot of you must be thinking, “Wtf then your blog is what?”
But you see, 9/10 of the people here who know me, …..I don’t know them.
Those who know me well would realize that I keep a small group of friends. I am very selective when it comes to friends, and would rather have no friends than to have a bunch of idiots as my friends.
Again, this might have something to do with my attitude (problem) but I stand firm in my beliefs and I cannot stand a lot of girls just as how they might not be able to stand me.
Sometimes I don’t see beneath peoples’ masks and I trust too easily. Or sometimes I’m just deluded for a very long time.
When I finally realize they’re no good for me though, nothing will make me stay.
All I will take with me is memories. And lessons.
I believe I can make a lot more friends if I actually bothered to be nicer to people, but yea I really can’t be bothered, so…
Loneliness is not a factor, because James is my best friend + boyfriend
I would rather spend time with him than anyone else.
But when we break up / have fights then… having a good friend would come in handy.
In school, I used to hang around with the “sociable” girls and even now, I hang out with “sociable” people like Fidelis, but the ironic fact is… I’m not exactly a sociable person.
I am the introvert, and the extrovert.
When I’m around people I’m comfortable with, I become all goofy and crazy and weird and talk non-stop but when I’m around people I’m not familiar with I tend to act aloof and distant.
I definitely don’t go around “mingling” with people and I probably won’t smile at you if I see you on the streets.
But one thing’s for sure, most of the time, I treat people the way they treat me.. If you smile at me, I’ll definitely smile back.
Unless you are Steven Lim.
5) I don’t do / have never done
drugs, cigarettes, (excessive) alcohol and gambling
I would never do anything hazardous to my health. (wait, does eating more than your stomach can fill count?)
I can’t stand it when people who smoke come near to me or touch me / my things with their filthy hands that smell like nicotine, so whenever James just had a puff I’d tell him to stay away from me or go wash his hands + rinse his mouth.
I read somewhere that kissing a smoker is like licking an ash tray. Great.
I think smoking is about one of the dumbest things ever - you pay money to become addicted to something that will cause you lung cancer.
Drugs - self-explanatory…
Alcohol - I guess enjoying fine wine or a few drinks here and there is fine, as long as you don’t get addicted.
But to hit the clubs every other night to get wasted and show everyone just how big a loser you are when you’re drunk is pathetic beyond words.
Lol image of the day
Gambling - My mum used to be superrr addicted to mahjong and would gamble every other night for over 20 years and somewhere last year she just stopped.
AND I AM SO PROUD OF HER!!!!!!!
!! I thought she would play mahjong until the day she died
It’s just not worth the risk la…
If it was, it’d be called “Taking responsible risks” and not just “gambling”
I don’t understand why addicted people would let themselves be manipulated by things that way.
Be it cigarettes, or alcohol, or gambling, drugs, etc…
I don’t think it’s very intelligent and I feel that everything should have its limit.
I know a lot of people who smoke, gamble, drink and even some who do drugs but I would never, NEVER let myself succumb.
Wa now I sound like I am self-praising hahaha.
I know some people would be thinking, “that’s cos you’re still quite young”
But it’s exactly because I am young that I keep reminding and promising myself never to touch those things – if you don’t set your own morals and principles right when you’re a teenager, it’s going to be hard to change your mind later on.
The only thing I am possibly slightly addicted to is blogging and the internet but at least I use it towards my advantage – if I weren’t hooked onto the internet, I wouldn’t have this blog and all of you wouldn’t be reading this, so yea…
Ok quite I think I’m gonna stop here since I’m getting bored of ranting on & on
I can’t believe I just typed a wholeeeeee post about ME!!!!!
Maybe I’ll continue this another time when my brain is working better~
Now you know a little bit more about me!