The Open House, Bali

For my 22nd birthday last month, we escaped to Bali where we spent a few blissful days basking in the sun, chasing after dolphins and watching sunsets on the beach – a much needed respite amid the madness that is known as the 3/4 year end rush.

I’ve been to Bali once before, 2 years ago with my family, however, I felt that the trip didn’t do any justice to what it could have been. I left Bali thinking it was overrated, with too many caucasians and too little things to do. Seemed like all they have is overly crowded beaches and cheap booze. How wrong I was! My family was not interested in doing much except visiting the typical tourist places and eating a lot, so the itinerary was not terribly interesting. I’m really glad I decided to give it a second shot and explore further on my own, because I fell in love with what I discovered. Bali is such an amazing destination! It has everything I love – beautiful beaches and sunsets, good cheap food, scenic sights to photograph, adrenaline-filled activities, and a ridiculous amount of varied accommodation with different budgets to take your pick from.

This time around, we chose The Open House to be our home in Bali for 3 nights, and it was an absolutely awesome decision!

Upon arrival, we were greeted by an ice cream truck at the entrance, two delicious welcome drinks and we were immediately won over by the rustic charm the whole place exudes. I love the wooden furniture and fixtures that are found everywhere in hotel – that’s how I know I’m in Bali! Checking in was a breeze with the efficient and friendly staff, and we couldn’t wait to check out our room!

The Open House offers 17 suites distributed in two floors, and while it’s not a large establishment, I believe that’s the beauty of it! I’m not a fan of staying in large hotels with too many people and squeezing with the crowds, waiting an hour just to check in and facing a sea of people during breakfast buffets in the morning. Not my idea of relaxation.

Our room was adequately spacious with a large balcony where you can enjoy your quiet cup of morning coffee with a view of palm trees and their swimming pool! The wooden fixtures are typical of Bali, and the colonial tiles on the floor are a cute little touch. If I could use one word to describe The Open House, it would be “zen”. Whatever worries you have, you’ll realize you’d left it at their doorstep. We had a hard time getting out of the marshmallowy king sized bed every morning. An iPod dock, LCD TV, beach bag (which proved to be extremely handy for us) and complimentary wi-fi are other thoughtful perks you can enjoy. It’s not glitzy or glamorous, but it succeeds tremendously in what it aims to be, which is comfortable and intimate – being the perfect opportunity to catch up with your thoughts and life itself. We felt right at home straight away.

I could spend all day bumming around with my favorite book and a fresh mango juice in hand in perfect contentment. I’m a fan of their minimalist decor. Sometimes, less is more.

Breakfasts at The Open House are peaceful affairs. The guests here are mindful and considerate, and I’m glad to report there wasn’t any shrieking kids to disrupt my peace during my stay. While they do cater to families, I’d recommend this down to earth accommodation more for couples and friends who want somewhere nice to stay in Bali without forking out too much, and if you don’t mind that there isn’t additional facilities such as a gym, etc. Instead of a breakfast buffet, The Open House offers an ala carte menu which is cooked to your request, and there’s a decent selection to provide you a heart breakfast when you wake up.

Next to the pool, there is a lounge area for you to read, do your work, sit and chat or even enjoy a full body massage on the beds provided! An outsourced masseuse will come directly to your room or to the massage area when you make an appointment, so you don’t have to leave the hotel to experience massage bliss. We were so tempted to try the massage next to the pool because the rates were so competitive, but we couldn’t squeeze any more time out of our schedule, which was spent exploring different parts of Bali!

If you’re feeling lazy and don’t want to leave your gorgeous hotel to eat (who could blame you?), the in house restaurant is worth a try! I especially enjoyed the burger, mango juice and home made coconut ice cream (not pictured here). There’s a good selection of local, international and western fare to cater to different tastes.

Or else, you could take a short walk to Jimbaran beach, a gorgeous white sand swimming beach, which is essentially your backyard because it’s just one minute away – and indulge in one of their many seafood restaurants scattered across the beach and have a romantic candlelit dinner! Jimbaran is a great location because it’s rather serene, close to the local life and touristy enough without feeling over commercialized.

The fact that The Open House is literally next to this gorgeous beach is probably my utmost favorite factor about it. The sunsets here are to die for, and the array of BBQed seafood is value for money. Nothing beats dining with a sunset view, listening to the waves gently wash onto shore, sand in your feet, beer in your hand.. The moment the sun descends from the sky, it’s painted in all sorts of orange and red hues which make for perfect Bali silhouette pics! I have never seen sunsets more gorgeous than this. Sunset watching is probably one of my favoritest things to do in the world – there is no simpler pleasure. You can also sit back and watch planes landing nearby from the beach because it’s only 20 minutes from the airport. I love how this beach attracts both locals and tourists to its beauty. When the sun starts to set, you’ll see local families running from the shore into the shallow waters helping their fishermen hubbies and daddies pull in their colorful fishing boats with fresh catches of the day, which I found heartwarming.

Bali must have magical healing powers – just one night there and I already felt anew. The island has this effect on you – once you’ve been there before, you’ll want to go back again. I can finally understand why this Indonesian island is loved by people worldwide – its raw, cultural beauty that’s so welcoming towards foreigners, is easy to get used to. With so many hotels to choose from in Bali, I hope my review on The Open House gives you better insight on whether it’s suitable for your travelings needs!

• The Open House •
Address: Jalan Pemelisan Agung No. 25, Jimbaran, Bali, Indonesia 80361
Phone: +62 (361) 709 160

I’d like to give special thanks to the kind people at The Open House for making my stay with them so wonderful! Overall, I could not fault the place at all. Warm and sincere service, nice food, fantastic location, comfortable spacious rooms, great ambience – you’ll definitely want to be back after staying here once. Exclusively for readers of this blog, you can quote “Shiberty” when making a booking with them for a special welcome gift that will be prepared just for you!

Would I recommend staying at The Open House in Bali? Most definitely.


Seoul Highlights, Part 1

In continuation from my previous Busan Highlights post done in collaboration with Korea Tourism Organization, here’s the second installation: highlights from my trip to Seoul, South Korea’s capital, pride and joy!

My dream is to travel the world (don’t we all wish the same thing?), and I’m glad I could check Seoul off my bucket list in 2014. Spontaneous and impromptu trips are the best in the sense that you never saw it coming, so every experience is an adventure. Seoul is the world’s third largest metropolitan area with over 25.6 million people. My impression of Seoul is a modern city with a traditional charm, fast-paced and bustling. Around every corner, something exciting is happening. The girls all have amazing hair. The place is so massive, a mere short few days here did not even allow me to scratch the surface of the abundance it has to offer, however I did get some unique activities done and also made it a point to check out some of the most famous landmarks!

Here are some of the awesome places I managed to visit while I was in Seoul, hopefully you guys will find this itinerary useful when you plan a trip there, too!


• Dongdaemun Design Plaza (동대문디자인플라자) •

Dongdaemun Design Plaza (DDP) is the newest and most iconic landmark of the Korean design industry. Located at the center of the Dongdaemun area, the DDP will serve as a key venue for design-related shows and conferences, exhibitions, and other events and gatherings.

We were there to check out the exhibition of a super popular K-Drama series that will have some of you going crazy over!

“You Who Came from the Stars” / “My Lover From The Star” is about an alien who landed on Earth in the Joseon Dynasty and, 400 years later, falls in love with a top actress in the modern era. To those who don’t know about this show prior to this paragraph, you must be thinking… what the heck?

That was my first thought too! I can’t say I am a fan of the series because, to be honest I’ve not even watched a single episode of it yet, but I plan to give it a go once I can spare some free time! It must be so insanely popular for a good reason, right? Despite not having seen the show before, it was still fun walking around, looking at sets from the show! Cheon Song Yi’s bedroom is gorgeous. You’ll definitely wanna check this place out if you like this TV series, and be transported right into a pretty fantasy world where aliens come from the stars to romance you!

Directions to Dongdaemun Design Plaza: Get off at Dongdaemun History & Culture Park Station (Seoul Subway Line 4), Exit 1. Upon exiting, walk straight for about 5 min.


• Klive (K-Pop Hologram Performance Hall) •

Klive is a new place visitors can watch the biggest stars of K-Pop in hologram performances anytime – it’s one of Seoul’s newer attractions, having just opened on the 9th floor of Lotte FITIN in Eulgi-ro on January 17, 2014. You don’t actually get to see any of the stars in person of course, it’s all basically very fancy hologram effects, which was actually highly entertaining and more interesting than it sounds! Knowing not a single verse to any K-Pop song, I still enjoyed myself as the hologram performance was interactive and funny. When in Korea, do as the Koreans do!

What they lack in physical presence, they make up for with actual talented dancers to complement the crazy cool hologram effects during the show and a whole bunch of exclusive merchandise you can’t find anywhere else! I think a hologram concert is a good idea – just saying that if Taylor Swift ever had one in some part of the world I could visit some day, I’d undoubtedly pay money to see it too. The next best thing to seeing her in the flesh! It’s conveniently located in a huge shopping mall, so when your legs need a rest from all that intense retail therapy, you could stop by here for an hour.

Directions to Klive: Get off at Dongdaemun History and Culture Park Station (Seoul Subway Line 2, 4, 5), Exit 11 or 12)



• Namsangol Hanok Village (남산골 한옥마을) •

If you get off at Chungmuro Subway Station, you’ll find yourself in front of Namsangol Hanok Village (traditional Korean village) where we get a glimpse into what life in the olden days in South Korea might’ve been like. This cultural heritage site is unexpectedly situated in the middle of the city’s tall buildings.

This village has five restored traditional Korean houses and a pavilion, a pond and a time capsule, which make it a perfect spot to take a walk. It was high summer season when I was in Korea so it was extremely warm, but during autumn, what a joy taking a stroll around here would be! A great place for photo opportunities.

These houses were rebuilt after the traditional houses of Joseon Dynasty and belong to those of various social classes, ranking from peasants to the king. The furniture in the house is situated to help guests understand the daily life of the past.

Directions to Namsangol Hanok Village: Chungmuro Station (Seoul Subway Line 3 & 4), Exit 4. Walk along Hanongmaeul-gil street for 5 minutes.

• Dongdaemun Market (동대문시장) •

Ever since its opening in 1905, Dongdaemun Market has been one of the major markets in Korea. Specializing in wholesale clothing, the market has grown large, having more than 20 shopping malls. A full range of fashion items that cover head to toe, are found in Dongdaemun Market at inexpensive prices.

Just name it and you shall find it! While we were there, we were surprised to come across peaceful (but loud) protestors roaming the streets in an orderly manner. Anyone knows what they’re protesting about?

We spent a few hours browsing through the endless amount of retail shops and I snagged some good deals for myself! We gave the wholesaler’s section of Dongdaemun a miss since we were tourists. They have so many things for you to look at and buy in the area, I could’ve spent a whole day and night shopping to my heart’s content if I didn’t have other things on my itinerary!

While some people may compare the pricing to Bangkok (another place famed for cheap shopping) saying it’s not as affordable, I would also like to add that the quality of some items in Dongdaemun are better than what you’d find in Bangkok, the price you pay just depends on what and where you buy, and whether you’re good at bargaining. I also happen to LOVE Korean fashion, and this place was sheer paradise!

Directions to Dongdaemun Market: Hop onboard Seoul Subway Line 2 Dongdaemun Stadium Station, or Line 1 or 4 Dongdaemun Station.



• Samsung Innovation Musem (삼성이노베이션뮤지엄) •

Samsung Electronics marked its 45th anniversary by opening the Samsung Innovation Museum in Suwon, South Korea. “The Samsung Innovation Museum brings together some of the true historical masterpieces of electronics innovation,” said CEO Kwon Oh-hyun at the opening event.

These inventions laid the technological foundation that allowed us to develop and refine products that enhance lives today. The museum gives visitors an opportunity to see where we’ve come from and also see where Samsung draws inspiration from to continue to create category defining products.

The museum features 150 inventions and products from Samsung as well as individuals and companies that have no ties with the Korean company –– an acknowledgement of its competitors.

I wasn’t hopping excited when I heard a museum was going to be on our to-do list, they generally aren’t my thing, but I was beyond blown away by how stunning the Samsung Innovation Museum was. It was probably one of my favorite parts of the trip as it was awe-inspiring and unlike any place I’ve been to before in my life.

The displays are engaging, the information provided useful and thought-provoking – I was pleasantly surprised by how much I liked touring this place. I walked around with a smile on my face the whole time, struck with child-like wonder. Tech geeks, curious children and people who have a thirst for knowledge or respect for innovation would have the best time here. It’s still so new and clean, felt like we were the first guests to ever enter! The whole time, all I could think of is how much Sam would have loved to be there with me.

Credit for source of information extracted here.

Directions to Samsung Innovation Museum: Please visit their website for detailed instructions.

This South Korea trip has brought about many “firsts” for me, and it’s been nothing short of an eye-opening experience. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading the first and second posts about it. I can’t wait to share the rest of my itinerary and pictures with you guys! The third installation and final post of my Busan + Seoul experience with Korea Tourism Organization will be coming your way soon, so stay tuned, and stay gold!


Philips Airfryer review and recipes

I believe anyone who has a moderate interest in cooking should invest in a Philips Airfryer. Just look at that incredible ratatouille dish I made in it! I’ve almost never been more proud of a dish I’ve cooked. Looking at this picture makes me beam with so much pride. Ah, how far I’ve come from not even being able to cook my own instant noodles barely a few years ago.

The Philips Airfryer is one piece of equipment that has completely changed the way I operate in the kitchen. In my opinion, it’s more than worth every single cent it costs because there’s nothing else quite like it in the world. It roasts, grills, fries, bakes, cooks and packs a real punch for its size. It’s ridiculously easy to use, such that even your 10 year old child can learn how to cook their own food under guidance, and the mess created is usually little to none. I’ve been raving about this appliance non-stop to anyone who steps foot in my kitchen and asks “What is this?” . I believe in sharing good things with the world. As an avid cook, I can tell you that the Philips Airfryer is pretty much a necessity if you want to save a helluva lot of time and trouble when preparing your meals.

Here’s why.

✓ Rapid Air Technology for healthier frying
Philips Airfryer’s unique Rapid Air technology enables you to fry, bake, roast and grill, the tastiest snacks and meals with less fat than a conventional fryer, by using little or no oil! Philips Airfryer with Rapid Air technology also creates less smell than conventional fryers, it is easy to clean, safe and economical for your daily use!

✓ Digital screen for easy control of time and temperature
With the digital touch screen you can control the time and temperature of your cooking in an easier and more precise way. Enjoy your favorite food, prepared at the right temperature and time for the best result!

✓ Smart preset button
Save the settings of your favourite dish so that next time, your meal is ready at the touch of a button!

✓ Versatile cooking
Not just great for frying, the innovative Philips Airfryer with Rapid Air technology also lets you grill, bake and even roast your favorite dishes for a one stop solution for all of your meals.

✓ International recipe booklet
This recipe book created by culinary experts gives inspiration for a variety of low-fat fried food that you can cook in the Philips Airfryer.

✓ Increased in power for faster cooking results
To indulge in your healthy dinners in lesser time!

In a nutshell.. Philips Airfryer’s unique design combines fast circulating superheated air, starfish design and optimal heating profile allows you to fry a variety of delicious meals in a fast, easy and healthier way without necessarily adding oil. The removable nonstick coated drawer and the food basket are dishwasher safe for easy cleaning. I’ve found that it does exactly what my oven does, but in a much shorter time span and way more effectively. For example, roasting vegetables to a nice crisp would take 35-45 minutes in my oven, but in the Philips Airfryer, it only takes 20 minutes! That’s practically half the time saved. We all know how slow the minutes go by when you’re starving and waiting for your food to be done, so this is a huge deal. I almost never deep fry food in a pan full of oil because I can’t stand the mess and having hot drops of oil splatter on me while cooking. I also do not like having to waste so much oil just to get one crispy dish. I can achieve perfectly crispy food without a single drop of oil used – that, is brilliant innovation right there. Cooking with the Philips Airfryer is a matter of putting your food into the machine, insert your temperature and cooking time, then wait for your food to be done. No fussing about.

I will soon be sharing two absolutely mouthwatering recipes done with the Philips Airfryer that will have you amazed at the things it can do. Although you CAN achieve these recipes with a standard oven (you will need to adjust the cooking duration, however), it’s a lot quicker with the Philips Airfryer.

The first up is a recipe inspired by one of my favorite Pixar films, Ratatouille – an adorable story about a little rat who had big dreams and a serious love for food! Ratatouille is a traditional French Provençal stewed vegetable dish, originating in Nice. Ever since seeing the film 7 years ago, I’ve been deeply intrigued by this dish. I have never seen this being served at any restaurant in Singapore before, only once when I was overseas, so I decided to re-create the dish myself! I’m obsessed with the color palette of this unique dish and I think it would be big hit for any potluck or dinner parties simply because it looks so stunning.

Recipe: Ratatouille

Ingredients: (4 servings)

  • 1 white onion minced
  • 3 cloves garlic minced
  • 1 green zucchini, thinly sliced
  • 1 yellow zucchini, thinly sliced
  • 1 japanese eggplant, thinly sliced
  • half yellow capsicum, de-seeded
  • half red capsicum, de-seeded
  • 4 small roma tomatoes
  • 400g diced canned tomatoes
  • olive oil and balsamic vinegar for drizzling
  • mixed herbs (basil, bay leaf, thyme and parsley)


  1. Roast capcisums cut side down in Philips Airfryer at 200 degrees for 10 minutes until nicely browned and tender. Let cool in a bowl with cling wrap over it. Once cool to the touch, remove the skin of capcisums, then dice them
  2. Add canned tomatoes, onion, garlic and capsicums to a 7″ round baking dish and roast for 8 minutes at 200 degrees, to reduce liquid content from tomatoes and meld the flavors together
  3. While that’s baking, toss your remaining sliced vegetables in olive oil, mixed herbs, garlic / onion powder (if you have it), salt and pepper to coat evenly, then start arranging zucchinis, tomatoes and eggplant in a circular even fashion around the tray
  4. Bake at 100 degrees for 30 minutes until vegetables are completely tender. If not soft enough, cook for a further 5-10 minutes at the same temperature
  5. Once vegetables are cooked to the desired soft consistency, finish off with 5 minutes at 200 degrees for a nice charring around the edges
  6. Serve warm with a good drizzle of olive oil and balsamic vinegar for extra flavor, add salt and pepper to taste

Voila! You have made ratatouille – just like the movie!!!

Delicate, subtle and earthy – three words I would use to describe this dish. It’s perfect as a side accompaniment to meat main courses or great just on its own if you want something light and healthy for dinner. Since I don’t have many (or any?) vegetarian recipes on my blog, I thought I’d do this one for our herbivore friends. If you’d like to take this dish to the next level, I’d suggest including sliced pieces of salami to give it a nice burst of smokiness & protein! The vegetables are tender and flavorful due to a varied mix. Perhaps it’s just my little obsession… but I find that drizzling truffle oil over any dish is always a good idea. If you don’t have truffle oil on hand, olive oil and some balsamic vinegar will do the trick to lift the flavors as well.


…Now I know, not everyone has the patience to thinly slice vegetables then arrange them in a pan and bake them until they’re tender. To most people, vegetables are not the main star on their plate. I get that. Ratatouille is definitely not an everyday recipe, nor will it suit the taste buds of everyone. You can save that for the special occasions. Next up, however, is something I can’t imagine anyone not liking!

Unleash your inner Martha Stewart with these Blueberry Lemon Muffins!

Now this is something I would not mind waking up to in the morning at all. I bought several punnets of blueberries because they were on sale, then realized…. I didn’t know what to do with them. I ate them with my cereal and fruit bowls slowly, but they were getting softer sooner than I was consuming them. So I decided to turn them into delicious breakfast / tea break muffins! I suppose you could use any other berry in replacement of blueberries, and it’s a great way to use up berries in the fridge that can turn overripe and moldy all too quickly.

Recipe: Blueberry Lemon Muffins

Ingredients: 12 muffins

  • 2 and a half cups of self-raising flour
  • half cup white sugar
  • half cup full cream milk
  • quarter cup vegetable oil
  • 2 eggs
  • one and a half cup blueberries
  • finely grated zest of 2 lemons
  • juice of one lemon
  • half teaspoon vanilla & lemon extract
  • brown sugar for sprinkling


  1. Measure out flour and white sugar into a bowl. Whisk together.
  2. In a separate bowl, combine milk, oil, lemon juice, eggs, and flavored extracts.
  3. Quickly combine the dry and wet ingredients from the two separate bowls, then gently stir in whole blueberries and lemon zest.
  4. Spoon batter into muffin / cupcake molds, then sprinkle the top generously with brown sugar
  5. Bake at 180 degrees for 12 minutes or until golden brown

Give your boyfriend, girlfriend, mom, dad, best friend, brother, sister, child, husband or wife something like this to wake up to in the morning, and I’m sure they’ll love you even more than they already do. It’s warm… it’s moist… it’s leaking delicious juices and it’s definitely calling your name. This blueberry lemon muffin is indeed a seductress.

The sprinkled brown sugar caramelizes at the top, and the lemon juice & zest lends a fragrant, aromatic kick without being acidic or sour. It’s the taste of the start of a good day.

..Did I also mention your entire house will smell amazing?

I was curious to see how well the Philips Airfryer could bake as compared to a standard oven – to my surprise, there was no difference in texture at all, and nobody I fed these muffins to even attempted to guess otherwise! Evenly baked, moist and fluffy with a crisp top. Everything a good muffin should be. I’m not just impressed – I’m positively head over heels in complete love with the Philips Airfryer, and I’ve been cooking very regular meals with it at home. You NEED to try it out to experience for yourself this revolution of a product.

I hope you’ve enjoyed looking through the recipes I’ve shared today, for more ideas on how to use the Philips Airfryer in your home, check out my first post with 2 more recipes, or their official website! The direct link to the product page for the Philips Airfryer XL is here. If you’re an Instagram addict like me, there’s also delicious photos and recipes to discover at the #PhilipsAirfryer hashtag.


Heineken Cities Festival

Calling on city urbanites keen to open up their world with new perspectives – on 30th August 2014, the Heineken Cities Festival brought together some of the world’s top city experiences in this unique urban street festival at Ann Siang Hill and Club Street, which exemplifies the cosmopolitan nature of Singapore as a melting pot of cultures.

Upon receiving the invitation, I knew I had to bring the enthusiastic Australian boyfriend – he’s a beer guzzler and Heineken is one of his favorites!

My friends Albert and Pearlyn came with us to check out the festival as we had dinner together nearby to celebrate Albert’s birthday and when we told them about this event they were keen to join in!

To say that the festival had a hugeee turn out would be an understatement. The entire area was absolutely PACKED to the brim with throngs of eager people literally having to brush up against each other just to get around. I was expecting a crowd, but not one this big and boisterous! Crazy party go-ers were everywhere with party hats and props that were being given out by Heineken. The ambience was infectious and it was easy to get caught up in the moment with good company, music and a few drinks.

There were roving performances from sexy Brazilian samba dancers, drummers and break-dancers who will brought the vibrant spirit and flavours of New York, London, Amsterdam, Rio de Janeiro and Shanghai. Highlights of the evening included live music spun by internationally renowned female singer-songwriter-producer-DJ Rae, as well as a live mural painting by local visual artist, illustrator and founder of OIC (Organisation of Illustrators Council), Mindflyer with his colourful flight and escapism themed artwork.

Enjoyed in over 198 countries around the world, Heineken is Singapore’s most enjoyed premium international beer. A well-balanced and smooth lager known for its pure taste and consistent quality, Heineken is also renowned the world over for its innovative initiatives. As seen below is my boyfriend who was more than happy to order a few buckets of liquid gold that make him happy.

The Limited City Edition Heineken bottles comprising New York, London, Amsterdam, Rio de Janeiro, Shanghai and Singapore will be available at all bars which serve Heineken island-wide till end September, while stocks last. The special Singapore edition of the Heineken Cities series will be exclusive to Singapore and will retail between $12 to $18 each, along with the others in the series.

This super hip uncle was walking around cheers-ing everyone he came across, and gamely posed for a picture! Go uncle!!! You’re never too old to par-tay!

I think the event definitely succeeded with flying colours in what it set out to do – to bring different people of all ages, races and diversities from around the world together for one common cause – have a Heineken beer, and make tons of merry!

Thanks for the fun night out, Heineken! It’s been a long time since I did something like this, I’m always at home with a movie and rabbits on my couch, so a social night out like this to let my hair down was way overdue.

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Slim Couture Post 3: Join us for our first event on 20th September!

Warning: there may or may not be a shocking photo of myself in my undies immediately below this sentence.

“Oh my gosh, look at her butt.” – Nicki Minaj in her newest video, Anaconda.

I’m not the only one in the world who actually likes that song (because of the video)… right? I think it’s hilarious. I can’t stop singing the song, especially when I made this collage of my side view with a photo I’d just taken earlier today at Slim Couture…. Check out my first and second post about my weight loss journey with Slim Couture if you haven’t already seen them. Damn right, look at that butt. It went from ginormous Nicki Minaj / Kim Kardashian-ish to, well, relatively normal. A normal kinda big. Hey, that I can deal with! Even though my weight loss progress with Slim Couture hasn’t been moving along in the kinda speed I’d had hoped for in the beginning no thanks to my usually non-existent dieting and frequent traveling + binging, at least I’ve got these photos for visual evidence of my efforts. The photo above is me with around 5kg+ loss, since the beginning of the treatment. I haven’t even dieted much (as any of my friends will tell you), perhaps less than 10% of what I’m supposed to (I’m sorry Slim Couture), so I do believe that Slim Couture’s treatment has worked wonders on me. Weight apart, my cm loss is pretty astounding. My ass looks like it shrank half in size! My tummy and waist are also way more slender. My boobs shrank considerably too (LOL), hence I could not wear the hideously large black bra in the first two photos any longer because it was so loose, it looked like I stole it from my grandmother’s closet. I don’t mind the smaller boobs though, large boobs are so heavy.

I don’t know how come I’ve become so okay with showing my underwear photos to everyone on my blog. I uploaded the above without even any second thoughts. I guess I got excited to share my progress with you all. I shrank it to a smaller size not to “preserve my decency”, but because I thought the visual disparities would be more immediate to the eye this way. I’m displaying unflattering photos of myself for the world to scrutinize and criticize on the internet, but hey, I don’t give a damn. I’ve reached the point whereby my physique is no secret or big deal, it is what it is and no matter anybody says about me (ew, her ass is so fat. yuck, shiberty has wide hips like a mother cow. omg did you see shiberty’s fugly pics in her granny underwear on her blog?) it is not going to faze me in the slightest. You won’t be able to tell me something I don’t already know. If it needs work, then work I shall. That’s exactly what I am right now – a work in progress.

I guess my weight is a matter-of-fact thing to me now, and I’m SO thankful that I can feel this rational about it…. because the worst feeling in the world is knowing you’re not in shape, and that you’re horribly unhealthy, yet feeling absolutely no resolution to do anything about it. Then letting people’s daggers of insults mercilessly rip you apart again and again. I know exactly how that feels, because my highest weight was over 80kg at one point in time. Accepting the situation for what it is – that you need help, be it physical, mental or nutritional, is so important because the first step to acting out changes in your life is solemn acknowledgement. You shouldn’t let yourself become too caught up with being ashamed of your obesity, as long as you’re working towards a solution. Everyone’s got their problems. You should embrace it like a real mental issue which results in physical consequences, such as anorexia and depression. People laugh at fat people all the time and think that they’re just greedy pigs who eat too much without exercising enough. While that may not be entirely untrue so to speak, that may not be the whole story.

Making that assumption is like saying anorexia only happens to bimbos who are so obsessed with vanity they don’t know how to differentiate skinny and malnutrition, or that depressed people are losers who can’t get a grip on their lives. It’s unfair to make such sweeping statements about a condition you haven’t been through yourself. If you’ve been through that shit, you won’t be so quick to judge others for it. I’ve been both depressed and obese before (happy to say that I am neither now), and I can tell you that if I could have it any other way in my life, I would NEVER have let myself fall into depression or obesity and I sorely wish it didn’t take me those few long years to fight the tough battles.

Sometimes there’s a back story that contributes to the main problem… some people actually have health issues that contribute to obesity, although sometimes, the reason for their obesity can be as simple as not having enough self-control. Some people drink away their feelings, and others eat their feelings. Both are unhealthy ways to deal with matters of the heart and mind. To me, food has always been a source of comfort. I love food in a way that few other people do. My idea of fun on a Sunday is to whip up a meal with friends. Food styling is currently my favorite hobby. I create customized desserts for a living. I’m a very discerning eater, sometimes maybe even a little snobbish. I love food, and food loves me so much that it wants to stay on my hips forever.

The reason why I gained so much weight is because I was too complacent, lazy, and uninspired to do anything about my horizontally expanding figure…. In a way, I wanted to “fuck it all” and just be “fat and happy”. Now, I realize, “fat and happy” are two words that are nearly impossible to use in the same sentence. I was doing photoshoots and trying to look good since I was 14 years old, and truth be told, I was tired of keeping it up. Looking good is a lifelong commitment. Eat right, keep fit, wax your armpits, shave your legs, groom your eyebrows, cut your hair, buy new trendy clothes that are often expensive… Jeez. Ain’t nobody got time for that. But, I realize that if you want something enough, you’ll make time for it to work out. If you look good, you feel good. It’s just the way it is. It’s not about being superficial… it’s about being realistic. Being really overweight, to me, is like having oily messy ungroomed hair that’s full of dandruff, yellow stained teeth with black cavities, bad breath or body odour.. these are things that are considered universally undesirable or unattractive not because everyone’s a judgemental asshole on a pedestal, but because these physical traits scream “I don’t care about me enough to take care of me”, or, “there’s something wrong with me”. And that, is a sign of unhealthiness. Everyone wants to be with somebody healthy, someone they can feel good around. I used to think that I was curvy, and that men liked curves, therefore I was still attractive and in decent shape…. because round is also a shape, right? *delusional*

But you know what? There’s a fine line between curvy, and plain fat, which I think gets blurred along the way based on people’s warped perceptions of beauty. Some people think they’re fat when they’re slim or SKINNY, while others think they’re cute and perfectly fine when they’re scientifically OBESE (me in 2011). You are definitely obese when your BMI says so. Yeah, some girls are big and curvy but it’s not full of cellulite and flabs. Look at Nicki Minaj. Girl’s got the biggest ass in the media industry, but she doesn’t have bulging love handles or soft lumps, from what I can tell from her Anacondo music video, at least. Damn, she’s in better shape than most people I know, and she’s HUGE. She’s REALLY thick in the middle. Bottom line is, you ain’t got no heavier bones or muscles that they don’t already give you leeway for. BMI calculators are very forgiving. I learned a hard lesson when I calculated my BMI one day and realized that it wasn’t even in the “Overweight” category like I’d expected, this freaken health website was actually telling me that I was very much OBESE. I cried myself to sleep that night, and tried to make myself feel better by eating more of my favorite food the next day. It’s a truly vicious cycle, low self esteem is. I disapprove of unnecessary and unconstructive blatant fat-shaming, but I also do not think promoting “curves” in the wrong way is acceptable. The kinda curves women want, are not jiggly lumps, simply put. I hope that by sharing my own opinions about what should be considered a healthy weight or not will help some girls out there who may be struggling with the concept of their size. They don’t know if they’re fat, obese, thin, or just normal. I would like to inspire, or rather, empower women who are overweight to do something about it. I don’t mean beat yourself up over it and feel shitty about your life. I mean hey, go on a sustainable diet, jump on the treadmill or go to Slim Couture. Do anything, except nothing.

Here’s some recent photos of myself, all cropped to square format because they were taken for Instagram originally:

I’m feeling a lot more confident, happy, and healthy these days.

I’m still flabby and a little thick, of course. If you touch my stomach, arms or thighs, they jiggle like jelly. I feel like Ditto the pokemon when I walk around. I’m definitely not toned, nor close to ideal physique still, which I would really some day like to be, after I work all these fats off. However long it takes, I hope, pray, and would like to believe, some day I’ll get there. I could definitely stand to lose another 5kg at least, before I start hitting the gym (being on the Slim Couture treatment means no excessive exercising). But for now, I do feel rather pleased with myself, for I know I’ve come so far from being a size UK 16. I have Slim Couture to thank for this. I can’t say I could have done this all by myself without them – that would be a lie. When I faltered, they stuck by me and encouraged me the whole time, always pushing me along when I needed the motivation. When I felt like giving up and cried out, “I can’t do this!!!” they would always firmly tell me, “Yes, you can.”

I’m not the only one who has benefited from Slim Couture’s treatments.

Look at Sam’s amazing results in just slightly over 1 month! He lost more than a total of 6kg. Guys tend to get tummy fat easier than girls, and that’s always been his problem area. Girls will collect fat on their hips, thighs and arms… but more often than not, for a guy, it usually goes straight to their gut. Slim Couture is open to helping not only the ladies, but men too. Sam tried to get rid of his tummy by crash dieting previously, but the results were slow and unconvincing.. and he only started on Slim Couture after witnessing that it worked on me. I’m honest-to-god convinced and happy that Slim Couture could help him get rid of his beer and food belly, which was no easy feat at all. He’s a lot more confident now, and has even started hitting the gym these days thanks to a new found appreciation for keeping himself fit. He looks better now than he does in the photos above!

Having said all of this… If you’re still not convinced about whether this method of TCM slimming works, or if you’d just like to find out more information about how this can help you or someone you know, I think you’ll be happy to know that Slim Couture is holding their first ever event on 20th September 2014, 1-4pm at China Square Central, 18 Cross Street, #02-06 Singapore 048423… and they’ve asked me to invite 15 of my followers down to come hear about my personal experience, alongside my good friend Yina Goh!

This will be a perfect opportunity to:

✔ Come and chat with us bloggers during this casual session
✔ Find out if it’s just good angles and photoshop or do we really look like that in person
✔ Ask the lady bosses of Slim Couture any question you’ve ever had about their methods, techniques and treatment
✔ Check out the actual premises of one of their outlets
✔ Receive 5% off your Slim Couture package if you sign up on that day itself
✔ Go home with a door gift worth $108
✔ Indulge in healthy food that won’t make you fat – catering will be provided and it will showcase the carefully selected approved diet foods
✔ Wish me Happy Birthday personally, because the event day is my actual date of birth! I turn 22 on the 20th of September!

You don’t have to pay or sign up or whatever to come join us that day. No strings attached, that’s a promise. Slim Couture isn’t into the hard-sell method and will not pressure you into buying any package if you’re simply not interested. The lady bosses are extremely humorous and nice in real life, so I’m sure we’ll all have a good time. All you have to do is be the first 15 to email them at, quoting “Shiberty X Slim Couture”, and you’ll receive an invite!

I’m awfully glad to have another opportunity to meet my followers! I would like to thank you for the support you’ve given me throughout the months and years in person, too. In all seriousness… I’m gonna be pretty upset if nobody shows up to wish me Happy Birthday, lol. Our partners, Sam and Yongzhuan (Yina’s fiance) will also be present that day to speak from a man’s point of view, to switch things up a bit.

Even if you’re NOT overweight or fat, you can still come to ask about how Slim Couture can help you target problem areas, or you can come on behalf of someone whom you know that might benefit from TCM slimming. The entire Slim Couture team, Yina and I, are extremely excited about this event, and we can’t wait to meet you in person. See you lovely people there!

Official website:
18 Cross Street, #02-06
China Square Central
Singapore 048423
190 Clemenceau Ave 2,
Singapore Shopping Centre, #05-29
Singapore 239924
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